Sunday, September 6, 2009

"I am really convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it……"

I think that these days I am realizing the impact of situations on life.Mostly the situations changes from good to worse only because of our Attitude/Reactions/Behaviour .Attitude, to me, is more important than the other facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance or skill. It will make or break a home, a relationship, a friendship too.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am really convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it.

Really, everyone wants happiness, no one wants suffering. And happiness mainly comes from our own attitude, rather than from external factors. If your own mental attitude is correct, even if you remain in a hostile atmosphere, you will feel happy." When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us ".
So don’t you think that it is with you …and we are all in charge of our attitudes??

2 comments:

Tanmay Bhattacharya said...
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Unknown said...

Nice to see the attitude growing in the people; but we'd not be disillusioned by the fact our attitude only works when we become ready with the weapon which is must to reach the goal. The old saying of luck and hard work making success is not still ambivalent. Yes, attitude is important, and without the attitude, even if you're prepared hundred % for the thing you deserve. Slightly at variace is the fact that, without the attitude probably your preparation for achievement will not become hundred %. But it is the quality of things for which you aspire is important. In a family and informal organisation where you have to achieve nothing tangible, it really matters much. But to achieve, tangible success your material should largely complement your attitude. Otherwise, 90% of your attitude will be termed over-confidence. And you know, what over-confidence can really do to anyone???????????????